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Ok, I know many women with squeamish partners have confessed to wishing their partners were NOT with them in the delivery room.  But I've never heard a doctor utter this sentiment...until now. 

 

According to the The Guardian, Dr. Michael Odent, a prominent OB, echos these women's secret thoughts and then some, believing that a mother-to-be's labor can be "longer, more painful and more complicated because she senses her partner's anxiety and becomes nervous."   He thinks men - including doctors like himself- only get in the way and that the best setting for birth is one with only a mother and midwife involved.  And he also thinks that "the masculinisation of the birth environment helps to explain the fact that 24% of women in the UK now have a caesarean section."  Well how do you like that.

 

I admit that my husband was a nervous nelly and nearly fainted when we had a minor complication in the delivery room and a C-section seemed imminent.   But I must say that I think the benefits of his being there, along with my MALE DOCTOR had practical and emotional benefits that far outweighed any risks to me or the baby. 

 

What do you think? Is it a help or a hinderance to have daddies in the delivery room? 

 

*Read what these moms REALLY think about dads in the delivery room on truuMOMconfessions.



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drudolph
3 yearss ago
I have to wonder what Dr. Odent would say about lesbian couples, where there is a female partner in the delivery room. Yes, the pregnant partner might still "[sense] her partner's anxiety and [become] nervous," but she would obviate the question of "the masculinisation of the birth environment." That is, unless the non-pregnant partner is very butch, whereupon the question would become "Where do we draw the line?" Masculinity and gender are such fluid constructs that I don't think it makes sense to ban someone based on that alone. A pregnant woman should make the decision about whomever she wants present (or not), with some exceptions made if the person becomes truly disruptive.
 
momof2
3 yearss ago
thanks for bringing this angle to the story...never thought about this issue with a lesbian couple and obviously, nor did Dr. Odent!
 
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3 yearss ago
I was so glad to have my husband with me the 2 times and I hope he can make it for the 3rd too...he shared the most important moment of my life and it was really moving for him too. but I can understand this if the husband is too nervous for instance, he must be caring and helpful not the one we care for :p
 

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